The flight home, as other families have blogged about, was pretty awful and uncomfortable. Asha was very agitated on the 15 hour flight from Dubai to San Francisco. The flight crew on Emirates was amazing, never seeming to get frustrated with our aisle walking, or our parking ourselves in front of the emergency exit to play on the ground with Asha. Due to the lack of sleep, and the intensity of the trip, I burst into tears when US Immigration informed us that Asha was now "a US Citizen." Asha took it all in stride and seemed completely nonplussed by her new immigration status :) To arrive home and see the faces of family and friends, and feel the hugs, was emotional and relieving. We missed everyone so much!
Today we have been home for one week, and it has been an exhausting, momentous, frustrating, interesting, and loving time. I plan to do a whole blog on "attachment and bonding," but for now, let me just say that Asha is a brave little girl who is resilient and sweet and trying very hard to adjust to her new life and surroundings. We, as first time parents, are trying to adjust to functioning with very little sleep :) Even in this short time home, we have seen progress, and love to see Asha's curiosity develop as she explores our home, our dogs, her grandparents, new foods, new toys, and daily walks to the playground. Support from our family has been essential in our transitioning, and the meals cooked, backs rubbed, and late night talks have been the scaffolding that allows us to build this family. There are more stories to be told, and certainly pictures to post, but for now this new Mommy must rest and rejuvenate for the little girl who will awake soon!

Emily,That plane ride home was indeed exhasting! I was up the entire time holding little Maiya! So glad you are home and adjusting well! I will be so glad when we get Maiya's citizenship done:) Have a great mothers day weekend,Gidget:)
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Emily, I once had someone tell me that we got our daughter the "easy" way, meaning there was no labor . . . but I would beg to compare the 24 hours of travel to labor any day! And to add insult to injury, there's jet lag on top of it all. :o)
ReplyDeleteI've been thinking of you often as you settle in and get to know one another. Those first few weeks can really be rough going, amidst the joy of being a parent. If you ever want to talk about new motherhood, just e-mail me and we can trade phone numbers. Hope you get some sleep!
Nancy
Hey Emily,
ReplyDeleteThe very fact that you are finding yourself awake long enough to post is amazing. I concur with Nancy about the "easy" way. There is nothing easy about these first few days, weeks...
Can't wait to hear all about your bundle...email or call any time.
Julie
So happy to hear that you are home safe and sound. Those flights home are EXHAUSTING!! Add in getting over jet lag and finding that new normal it can make for quite the adventurous first few weeks.
ReplyDeleteI can't wait to see pictures of your new little beauty. It is wonderful that you have such great support from your family and friends.
Feel free to email or call me anytime.
April :-)
Happy Mother's Day! I hope Sunday is a very special day for you as you hold sweet Asha.
ReplyDeleteSo wonderful! Praying for you all as you adjust! Grace and Peace to you!
ReplyDeleteSo happy to hear that you're home. I predict a lot more rest for all of you after jet lag truly wears off. They say it takes a day for every hour which always seems true for me.
ReplyDeleteWelcome home and have a wonderful first Mother's Day.
The bonding process is a dance all it's own. Praying for you as everyone adjusts. Congrats again and Happy Mother's Day! - Traci G. (Dillon mom)
ReplyDeleteI was thinking of you today as well as it is quite a day...Mother's Day! And you deserve quite a Mother's Day celebration...you have been through a lot this last year with waiting and waiting and more documents and oh yeah, waiting some more,to finally come home with Asha!! But yes, hoping you are finding a new normal and the joyful and somewhat restful days are going to outweigh the others soon. Look forward to the post on bonding and attachment...would love any suggestions as Paul leaves next week:) Thanks for posting despite the lack of time and sleep!
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